Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Stop the Rape on Nigeria!

One of the many wondrous phenomena in nature is what scientists have termed the butterfly effect. It is held that the slightest flutter of a butterfly’s wings is capable of producing tsunami miles away, even in another continent. As witnessed in many countries in recent past, a small imperceptible change in public policy could result in many other changes in different dimensions. That was the case with the removal of fuel subsidy in January 01, 2012.
An average Nigerian is known to be docile and uninterested in what the government of the day is up to. This is particularly because the typical Nigerian is helpless and believes his opinions are insignificant. However, everything changed with the removal of the fuel subsidy – which by the way, some persons have vowed do not exist legitimately. The curious aspect is that government has not refuted this claim except by saying that the people are thinking like accountants and not economists. Whatever dust yarn that means! (Eyes rolling).
Anyway, I didn’t put pen to paper as the national strike/protest loomed, partly because I was struggling to understand how blatantly, successive administrations have raped this country and partly because I was awed at the sheer ingenuity and adroitness of these political masterminds, as fact after fact, was uncovered regarding the level of systemic decay in Nigeria. It was amazing.
As an aftermath, the Pat Utomi-led national summit is belabouring themselves with talks about the need to convene a national conference to address issues they have noted with the 1999 constitution. As I watched each speaker bare their minds, I was amazed at their dexterity, eloquence and brilliance. With all these abundant human and intellectual resources, why is Nigeria still so disgraceful? I wondered.  Is it not some of this same group of people who are displaying such admirable qualities on TV that have led us to our ruin? What’s in our national DNA that super-imposes itself on our genetics as soon as we join national politics to produce a government of institutionalized corruption that we witness today?
Yet, we pray that good shall overcome evil – normal Naija prayer! Anyway, let’s take a look at some of these evils crippling the nation:
·         Insecurity
·         Lack of accountability and transparency in governance.
·         Corruption
·         Political ineptitude
·         Wasteful spending
·         Lack of independence in the judiciary
·         Lack of sanctity for the ballot box
Perhaps, one of the problems is that Nigerians are ardent optimists and incorrigible opportunists and that is why, more than 50 years after oil was discovered in Oloibiri, Bayelsa State, little or no significant add-on has been invested transparently in the oil and gas industry. As I scribble this, a fire is raging at an oil field in Bayelsa State and the poor inhabitants are losing their means of livelihood by the second, while a country this big is waiting for companies in the US with the requisite technical expertise to come extinguish the fire. How ludicrous!
Could government please, just for a moment, refocus its predatory binoculars fixated on the oil and gas industry to production and manufacturing in this country? Could we give a boot to indolent governors who sit cross-legged and waiting to swoop down like hawks on federal government allocations every month? Could we please stop using close to 80 per cent of our national budget to service an unproductive bureaucracy in government quarters?
We are spending our children’s future on astronomically irrelevant and wasteful items. What is more, when pilgrimage visits have become avenues for corrupt practices. Can you beat introducing Nigerian Content to pilgrimage visits? Now, not to sound profane, I mean, can we really afford to spend millions of dollars on pilgrimage annually when our youths are not gainfully employed? I think not!
I think a country begets the type of institution it models. How dare we assert that the policeman at one of the several – toll blocks – I beg your pardon, road blocks on our streets, is the worst person in Nigeria? If we truly desire a prosperous nation, we must change the face of our nation beginning at the individual levels. We must celebrate governors of non-oil producing states who have made progress for their states. Our government must demonstrate that it is willing to allow good people to stand up and make a difference. Tell magazine editorial of May 10, 2010 opined that Nigerians will be most willing to partner with the current president in the awesome task to remake Nigeria, provided he sustains the confidence reposed in him. To do otherwise is to fritter away the goodwill he got when Nigerians fought for him to assume leadership of the nation. I may not give a very informed view of where he stands currently in the minds of Nigerians but I don’t think his rating is too good.
Let’s collectively place our country on the map of people who can rise from adversities and afflictions to prominence. Let us restore dignity of Nigeria. I agree with Ireti Doyle who commented at the Summit that the idea of a country of 150 million people and counting is ‘romantic and nice,’ but what’s more important is the befitting structure for its collective good. I cannot rationalize it in any way that we import food from Burkina Faso – a completely landlocked country, when our country is surrounded by seas and ports. Nigeria should export more than it imports. How wasteful can we get when a country of over 150 million people import food from another country of just 15 million? That’s absurd!
Please,  please, please, stop the rape! Stop the plunder!
xoxo
abydarl








Sunday, February 5, 2012

Confused about colour-mix for your bridal train?


Many brides-to-be usually run into a fit thinking of the colours to choose for their bridal trains and decoration. Are you one of those? Abydarl's RED carpet has got the perfect solution for you.  

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You can create an astonishing effect by combining all the colours. Don't they all look just ravishing? Hahahahha. There you are! Now, you don't have to worry no more about what hues and shades to use for that wonderful pictorial and heavenly effect on your special day!

Who says you can't choose them all? Hehehehehe


xoxo

abydarl

Friday, February 3, 2012

It's Time To Sit Down





In 1955, Rosa Parks was arrested for refusing to give up her seat on the bus for a white man. Boycotts and bloodshed followed until the Supreme Court ruled segregation unconstitutional. Later, Rosa wrote, “Knowing what must be done does away fear. After many years of being a victim, I felt it was time for someone to stand up – or in my case, sit down.”


Courage is displayed at the most unusual moments; moments that could change you and those around you forever. I recently had my own sitting-down moment, (more of that later). I once heard the story of a spy who got caught and sentenced to death. Before his execution, an army general asked him to choose between the firing squad and the ‘big door,’ he chose the firing squad. If only he’d known that behind the big door laid freedom!
If God has invested a lot in you, you must believe that it is His will for you to succeed. Be strong and of good courage and you will have good success! I know what I’m talking about when I tell you that you have no good reason to worry. Maybe, you have a reason for it. But, believe me, no reason is good enough! But that is only when you understand that life is all you set out to make it to be.
Sometimes, a foe can press you into victory where a friend cannot. It is good to have critics and competitors.  I mean, who would have heard of David without Goliath? Moses, if there was no pharaoh oppressing the Israelites? Esther, without Haman’s evil plot to exterminate the Jews?
Yeah! Those are stories, but, believe it, when you dare to confront your fears and enemies; they will become instruments in God’s hands to press you into your destiny. Sometimes, it is more important to sit down than to stand up and walk away. Sitting down is an action. It is active. It isn’t sitting still, hoping and doing nothing. Sometimes, you must sit down, meditate and strategize on how to overcome life’s challenges. Think of the many different things you can do while sitting down. You sit down to study and excel at you academics! You sit down to even do the big one! Don’t always stand up and walk away no matter how hot that seat is! Who knows, you just might be walking away from those cool millions you’ve always dreamed about!
Several times, we choose the known at the expense of good old beautiful unknown. Several wise men have expressed it in different ways that it is a sign of insanity to do the same things and expect different results. John Maxwell describes those who can cause a change as people who get-it-done-and-then-some. I’d want you to become a catalyst today. Create the change that you desire to see wherever you go. No one says you must know it all, or become super-smart or super-human, but, I’m sure that by being assertive (not aggressive please!) about what you believe in, you can engender a transformation – either standing up or sitting down.


xoxo

abydarl

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Ladies, should we wear these to the office?

The kind of footwear our designers are churning out these days are mind-boggling.

Should we reserve them for the red carpets or strut our stuff, wherever and whenever?


Tell me what you think.






xoxo


abydarl

Graffiti artist took Facebook stocks for painting walls


The painting is now worth $200m+ when the IPO is complete. THAT was a very smart move!



David Choe was paid in Facebook stock for paintings at the company's first headquarters. His payout may be $200 million when it goes public. Some investors may make billions of dollars.

xoxo

abydarl
 

Welcome to FUNTOPIA!

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I am totally delighted to start my own blog. This is gonna be my maiden post but as the next few days unfold, and weeks roll into months, i promise you exciting reads and a-mazing fun on this page. There will be stuff on dating, love, life, fashion and style and what i have birthnamed, FUNTOPIA!

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Yes, I am a butterfly!

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xoxo
abydarl